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  1. uncomfortablesoul:

When I ask you                                         to listen to me, And you start giving me                                         advice, You have not done what I                                         asked.
When I ask that                                         you listen to me, And you begin to tell me why I                                         shouldn’t feel that way, You are trampling on my                                         feelings.
When I ask you                                         to listen to me, And you feel you have to do                                         something to solve my                                         problems, You have failed me, strange as                                         that may seem.
Listen. All that I ask is that you                                         listen, Not talk or do - just hear                                         me. 
When you do                                         something for me That I need to do for myself, You contribute to my fear and                                         feelings of inadequacy.
But when you                                         accept as a simple fact That I do feel what I feel, no                                         matter how irrational, Then I can quit trying to                                         convince you And go about the business Of understanding what’s behind my                                         feelings.
So, please                                         listen and just hear me And, if you want to talk, Wait a minute for your turn - and                                         I’ll listen to you.

    uncomfortablesoul:

    When I ask you to listen to me,
    And you start giving me advice,
    You have not done what I asked.

    When I ask that you listen to me,
    And you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that way,
    You are trampling on my feelings.

    When I ask you to listen to me,
    And you feel you have to do something to solve my problems,
    You have failed me, strange as that may seem.

    Listen.
    All that I ask is that you listen,
    Not talk or do - just hear me.

    When you do something for me
    That I need to do for myself,
    You contribute to my fear and feelings of inadequacy.

    But when you accept as a simple fact
    That I do feel what I feel, no matter how irrational,
    Then I can quit trying to convince you
    And go about the business
    Of understanding what’s behind my feelings.

    So, please listen and just hear me
    And, if you want to talk,
    Wait a minute for your turn - and I’ll listen to you.

    (via uncomfortablesoul)

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  3. uncomfortablesoul:

“I’ve tried to block your memory to protect me from the pain, pretend I  never knew you, and never heard your name. But the walls aren’t strong  enough and I fight my tears in vain. The feeling came creeping through  and the hurt is still the same. I wish I could forget you, or make you  see me now. The pain will ease in time, and though I know it’s over and what we had  is gone, the memories will live forever in a corner of my mind.”
She: God after a long time i saw him today, he looks so happy. He didnt noticed me but i saw him smiling, he looks so fine. I know how i asked you to take care of him, to always make him safe and happy. I know how im asking you to make him feel love and even asked you to bring the right girl for him, someone who can take care of him, someone who will love him.  But why im feeling this way God? im hurting, i dont understand, i should be happy for him but im not. I feel bad, it shouldn’t be this way
God: i understand, dont worry it is natural to feel that way. You will get better, i promise.She: but God, Why? I dont like this feelings, it feels like my heart is breaking again… It took me a years to put the pieces back together and i thought im already okay but seeing him again makes it painful again. Why?
God: because you love.
She: Does it really have to hurt? 
God: because that is how you will learn. You will be okay, can you please trust me? I am here, i will take that pain away, all you have to do is to let go, really just fully let go…everthing that is in your heart right now, that pain, anger, everything and just trust me! i am here for you. i love you.

    uncomfortablesoul:

    “I’ve tried to block your memory to protect me from the pain, pretend I never knew you, and never heard your name. But the walls aren’t strong enough and I fight my tears in vain. The feeling came creeping through and the hurt is still the same. I wish I could forget you, or make you see me now. The pain will ease in time, and though I know it’s over and what we had is gone, the memories will live forever in a corner of my mind.”

    She: God after a long time i saw him today, he looks so happy. He didnt noticed me but i saw him smiling, he looks so fine. I know how i asked you to take care of him, to always make him safe and happy. I know how im asking you to make him feel love and even asked you to bring the right girl for him, someone who can take care of him, someone who will love him.  But why im feeling this way God? im hurting, i dont understand, i should be happy for him but im not. I feel bad, it shouldn’t be this way

    God: i understand, dont worry it is natural to feel that way. You will get better, i promise.

    She: but God, Why? I dont like this feelings, it feels like my heart is breaking again… It took me a years to put the pieces back together and i thought im already okay but seeing him again makes it painful again. Why?

    God: because you love.

    She: Does it really have to hurt? 

    God: because that is how you will learn. You will be okay, can you please trust me? I am here, i will take that pain away, all you have to do is to let go, really just fully let go…everthing that is in your heart right now, that pain, anger, everything and just trust me! i am here for you. i love you.

    (via uncomfortablesoul)

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  5. uncomfortablesoul:

“Some of us get quiet, go inside ourselves and guard against the hurt. Others run through the storm, knocking on doors looking for help… I tend to go inside. I just need a little one on one time with myself to figure some things out. i  just need to be alone, i’ll be back.”
Stop, where am I? Shock, I can’t cryI need some space No, this isn’t me Oh, please let me breathe I’ll be back sooner than you know
I’ve been blind I hope I’ll be fine Don’t call me back, no Yes, I see light Now, it’s so bright Call my name, I’ll be me soon
NO, it’s not personal Sorry if I’m hurting you Please don’t give up on me now I needed this time alone To know I could come back home To breathe, breathe, breathe
I need this space just like you need it I need this time, time to clear up my mind
- “i need this” Jessie j/Chris brown

    uncomfortablesoul:

    “Some of us get quiet, go inside ourselves and guard against the hurt. Others run through the storm, knocking on doors looking for help… I tend to go inside. I just need a little one on one time with myself to figure some things out. i  just need to be alone, i’ll be back.

    Stop, where am I?
    Shock, I can’t cry
    I need some space
    No, this isn’t me
    Oh, please let me breathe
    I’ll be back sooner than you know

    I’ve been blind
    I hope I’ll be fine
    Don’t call me back, no
    Yes, I see light
    Now, it’s so bright
    Call my name, I’ll be me soon

    NO, it’s not personal
    Sorry if I’m hurting you
    Please don’t give up on me now
    I needed this time alone
    To know I could come back home
    To breathe, breathe, breathe

    I need this space just like you need it
    I need this time, time to clear up my mind

    - “i need this” Jessie j/Chris brown

    (via uncomfortablesoul)

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  7. uncomfortablesoul:

“It just hurts so badly sometimes. Sometimes it feels like you’re being  thrown into a train track, but the train only hits your heart.  Continuously. Over and over again. Without failure.”
Maybe my heart’s too weak. There’s just this feeling, thought I had to  get going… got too scary, got too big, got to get out of here. But now  I don’t know how to get home.
Memories just linger and don’t seem to go away. Why can’t I be happier?  The confusion I’m feeling now won’t disappear  over night, but someway, somehow, everything will be alright.

    uncomfortablesoul:

    “It just hurts so badly sometimes. Sometimes it feels like you’re being thrown into a train track, but the train only hits your heart. Continuously. Over and over again. Without failure.”

    Maybe my heart’s too weak. There’s just this feeling, thought I had to get going… got too scary, got too big, got to get out of here. But now I don’t know how to get home.

    Memories just linger and don’t seem to go away. Why can’t I be happier?  The confusion I’m feeling now won’t disappear over night, but someway, somehow, everything will be alright.

    (via uncomfortablesoul)

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  9. uncomfortablesoul:

Why is there this everlasting craving to be loved?  Listen carefully. You want to be loved because you do not love; but the  moment you love, it is finished, you are no longer inquiring whether or  not somebody loves you. As long as you demand to be loved, there is no  love in you; and if you feel no love, you are ugly, brutish, so why  should you be loved? Without love you are a dead thing; and when the  dead thing asks for love, it is still dead. Whereas, if your heart is  full of love, then you never ask to be loved, you never put out your  begging bowl for someone to fill it. It is only the empty who ask to be  filled, and an empty heart can never be filled by running after gurus or  seeking love in a hundred other ways. - J. Krishnamurti Think On These Things

    uncomfortablesoul:

    Why is there this everlasting craving to be loved? Listen carefully. You want to be loved because you do not love; but the moment you love, it is finished, you are no longer inquiring whether or not somebody loves you. As long as you demand to be loved, there is no love in you; and if you feel no love, you are ugly, brutish, so why should you be loved? Without love you are a dead thing; and when the dead thing asks for love, it is still dead. Whereas, if your heart is full of love, then you never ask to be loved, you never put out your begging bowl for someone to fill it. It is only the empty who ask to be filled, and an empty heart can never be filled by running after gurus or seeking love in a hundred other ways. - J. Krishnamurti Think On These Things

    (Source: uncomfortablesoul)

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  11. uncomfortablesoul:

“I realize I’m in one of those stages where I’m mad at the world, I’m  like daring the world to push me off a cliff…just to see if I can  fly.”
The saddest kind of sad is the sad that tries not to be sad. You know, when Sad tries to bite its lip and not cry and smile and go, “No, I’m happy for you”? That’s when it’s really sad.    - john mayer
And still she remains strong and brave. She never lets on to her heartache or pain. Still she smiles and holds it all inside. she’ll be fine.

    uncomfortablesoul:

    “I realize I’m in one of those stages where I’m mad at the world, I’m like daring the world to push me off a cliff…just to see if I can fly.”

    The saddest kind of sad is the sad that tries not to be sad. You know, when Sad tries to bite its lip and not cry and smile and go, “No, I’m happy for you”? That’s when it’s really sad.    - john mayer

    And still she remains strong and brave. She never lets on to her heartache or pain. Still she smiles and holds it all inside. she’ll be fine.

    (via uncomfortablesoul)

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  13. uncomfortablesoul:

You walk outside and all you see is rainYou look inside and all you feel is painAnd you can’t see it now
You wake up every morning and ask yourselfWhat am I doing here anywayWith the weight of all those disappointmentsWhispering in your earYou’re just barely hanging by a threadYou wanna scream but you’re down to your last breathAnd you don’t know it yet
But down the road the sun is shiningIn every cloud there’s a silver liningJust keep holding on (just keep holding on)And every heartache makes you strongerBut it won’t be much longerYou’ll find love, you’ll find peaceAnd the you you’re meant to beI know right now that’s not the way you feelBut one day you will - Lady Antebellum “One Day You Will”
“Life isn’t meant to be easy, it’s meant to be lived..sometimes happy,  other times rough. But with every up and down you learn lessons that  make you strong.”

    uncomfortablesoul:

    You walk outside and all you see is rain
    You look inside and all you feel is pain
    And you can’t see it now

    You wake up every morning and ask yourself
    What am I doing here anyway
    With the weight of all those disappointments
    Whispering in your ear
    You’re just barely hanging by a thread
    You wanna scream but you’re down to your last breath
    And you don’t know it yet

    But down the road the sun is shining
    In every cloud there’s a silver lining
    Just keep holding on (just keep holding on)
    And every heartache makes you stronger
    But it won’t be much longer
    You’ll find love, you’ll find peace
    And the you you’re meant to be
    I know right now that’s not the way you feel
    But one day you will - Lady Antebellum “One Day You Will”

    “Life isn’t meant to be easy, it’s meant to be lived..sometimes happy, other times rough. But with every up and down you learn lessons that make you strong.”

    (Source: uncomfortablesoul)

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  15. uncomfortablesoul:

Moving on is not about not looking back. It’s taking a glance at yesterday, and seeing how much you’ve grown since then.
Maybe I have failed more often than I have succeeded but I can pick myself up, hold my head high and move forward.
Because I’m telling you that from this great fall, I’ve come a long way and I love my life now more than ever thought possible.

    uncomfortablesoul:

    Moving on is not about not looking back. It’s taking a glance at yesterday, and seeing how much you’ve grown since then.

    Maybe I have failed more often than I have succeeded but I can pick myself up, hold my head high and move forward.

    Because I’m telling you that from this great fall, I’ve come a long way and I love my life now more than ever thought possible.

    (via uncomfortablesoul)

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